The recent revelation that a 26-year-old Indonesian man, AK, discovered his wife, Adanda Kanza, was actually a man named ESH, just 12 days after their marriage, has sent shockwaves through the community and highlighted concerns about the vulnerabilities in online relationships.
AK and Adanda initially connected on Instagram a year ago, leading to real-world meetings where Adanda consistently wore a niqab, concealing her face. AK, respecting what he believed was Adanda’s religious devotion, did not question this practice.
Their wedding, which took place after a year of dating, raised initial suspicions as none of Adanda’s family members attended. Adanda explained this away by claiming to have no living relatives, a story AK found plausible at the time. However, AK began noticing peculiar behaviors shortly after the marriage, prompting him to investigate further. Within just 12 days, he uncovered the truth: Adanda was actually ESH, a man.
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Reports indicate that ESH maintained a feminine appearance and voice, making it challenging for AK to suspect any deception. The use of niqab during their meetings further obscured ESH’s true identity. Local authorities confirmed the deception, emphasizing ESH’s feminine demeanor and voice as crucial factors in the successful disguise.
The incident has evoked various reactions within the community, with many expressing empathy for AK and raising concerns about the ease with which ESH was able to deceive him. It has also sparked discussions on the importance of verifying identities and the risks associated with online dating.
